Just wanted to post a thank you Becky and Allie. We all travel a different path with these types of injuries, and we are just glad that Father keeps us under his care. We really appreciate hearing from you, since we don't hear from other families much, and knowing what we are going through it's understandable. We have spoken to a few families of near-drowning on some of the networks I mentioned before, but to hear from you and a few others reminds that this lonely road has been traveled by others, and it does go somewhere. No, we haven't really had any counseling for any of us. Arianna's accident kinda just wiped us off the map. We have a lot of support from family and friends, and to date have been just trying to figure out who and why we are again. Not even sure any of us are dealing with things yet, although I think either we are starting to beat off the depression, or learning to live with it. But we have been considering some good christian counseling, especially for the children. Maybe some locals reading this could suggest someone. Love to all.. btw... today is our 13th anniversary! January 28, 1995 at a small baptist church in Avon Park. Unbelievable that is!! 13 years...